I don’t need to
March 27, 2009 by dendominguez
I have these brown spots on my cheeks (it usually doesn’t show up on pictures) that look like moles. I’ve had friends & people tell me that I should have it removed, magpa-Vicky Belo raw ako. They started appearing when I was in my 30’s. I already had it seen by 2 dermatologists because I thought at first that they were warts or worse, skin cancer. I was told, thankfully, that they weren’t. They told me the medical term (I forgot it na) & assured me that it’s a natural thing for brown skinned people to have as they get older. If I have it removed, it’ll just come back at a later time.
My teeth aren’t straight either (may sungki ako sa upper teeth) & I have a little underbite. If I just had braces, braces are expensive, & to have everything corrected, including the underbite, would involve surgery & the grand total would cost me like $15,000, the equivalent of buying a really nice second hand car.
My thinking is this - di naman ako artista o modelo, I don’t need to get anything done. I’m not willing to spend money on having those brown spots on my cheeks removed if they’re gonna come back anyway, & I don’t really need to have anything done with my teeth. It would be nice to get braces & all that & to have a blemish free face , but I know my financial priorities, I’d rather put that money into my sons 529 college savings plan.
I’ve always known the difference between wants & needs. And though I’m far from looking like an artista or modelo, I’m perfectly happy with the way I look. ![]()
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Our imperfections are what makes us unique and wonderful. They all add up to our natural beauty. I am cheering silently in my head that you choose to focus on your son’s future vice frivolous expenditures like surgery.
My “imperfections” would be my somewhat bulbous nose. When I was younger, I had a cut on my nose which became really infected. After all the antibiotics and treatment, there was a scab. (This gets gross…) I picked the scab and there was a hole on my nose. It eventually healed and closed up. Anyway, I wouldn’t trade my imperfect nose for anything. I think the nose is cute.